I was always very religious as a practicing jew, I always seperated that from "spiritualality". Spiritual things ranging from "the secret" to fung shui always attracted me but I never wanted to look into them of fear that they would contradict my faith in God. However, once I realized this did not have to be the case, my spiituality was greatly expanded and became more of an adventure than just abiding by rules of judaism

While I think discussion to get one's point across is important, I wish people spent more time discussing things fpretending to be from a different point of view. For exampe, if you are pro McCain, pretend you are pro Obama and argue against someone who is for McCain. You may discover many things about the world and youself.